Dress to IMPRESS, Not DISTRESS

“I also want women to dress modestly, with decency and propriety, not with braided hair or gold or pearls or expensive clothes, but with good deeds, appropriate for women who profess to worship God.” 1 Timothy 2:9-10 NIV

What Do Your Clothes Say About You?

Everyone takes notice when a stylish woman enters a room. Her outfit is tasteful, her hair and makeup are impeccable, and her shoes are polished and scuff-free. In other words, she’s got it going on! Although the Lord wants His daughters and sons to look presentable, we have to be mindful not to overdo it. Some jobs may have a more relaxed dress code, while others, such as sales, require a wardrobe that reflects success—expensive suits and shoes, manicured nails, and expert grooming. In sales, first impressions are lasting, and presentation is vital. Though dressing to the nines in Prada and Gucci is nice, the Lord has a better wardrobe plan—to “clothe yourselves with compassion, kindness, humility, gentleness and patience” (Colossians 3:12).

I’ll never forget the time I wore black leather pants to work, where I was a project manager at a major newspaper. I was in my twenties and had an hourglass figure, and I remember exactly what I wore that day—butter-soft leather pants, a cashmere turtleneck sweater, and black designer pumps. But I’ll also never forget the reaction I received from one of my colleagues who knew I was a Christian. Joel (not his real name), a middle-aged Jewish man, couldn’t help but “admire” my outfit and fixed his gaze on my hips. “Hmm, hmm, hmm, Carol. I bet you drive those deacons crazy on Sundays when you wear those pants.” Flattered (how dumb was I?), I simply smiled and said, “Oh, silly! I don’t wear these to church!”

We had a good laugh, but later that day in the cafeteria, one of my dear sisters in Christ pulled me aside. “Carol, you know, you really shouldn’t wear those to work. They’re pretty revealing,” she said, motioning with her eyes toward my rear end. I got the picture. And I never wore them to work—or anyplace else—again. If a simple thing like wearing leather pants could change the way a co-worker looked at me, then I was willing to retire them.

Looking back, I can see that those leather pants represented my life “BC” (before Christ) of clubbing, drinking, and partying with my single girlfriends. Maybe this was the Lord’s wake-up call for me to retire those pants—and their connotations—for good. I like looking my best and feel more confident when I’m well dressed.

Although God wants us to represent Him well physically, I think He’s more concerned about our spiritual condition. A harsh, critical spirit isn’t flattering on anyone!

POWER MOVE

Wardrobe choices are always personal, but remember that when you’re in a place of business you will have limitations, even in the most casual settings. Clean, pressed, and neat clothes never go out of style. Most of all, remember that you are in essence “working for the Lord” (Colossians 3:23). And He’s One Boss you don’t want to disappoint.

MY CONFESSION

“I will be sure to represent the Lord well, even in my clothing choices. He is my ultimate Boss.”


~ Carol Mackey is the author of Sistagirl Devotions which is a GREAT book for Winning Women. For More Information about Carol visit www.CarolMackeyOnline.com.